pick up & drop off

i'm really tired

don't judge me for not doing the things you think i should be doing
because you are not me

i once heard somebody say, never tell another person you understand, especially when you are trying to console
because you never will
be in the same situation
facing the same kind of people
experiencing the same thoughts

personally i think it's quite true. there must be some other better way of consoling other than saying you understand right?

someone told me before too that it's not good to bother too much into others' affairs
they might think i'm prying
if they want you to know they'll tell you
how true is this?

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i'm really bad with this interpersonal-communication thingie. one of the things in life i wish i don't care as much as i really do. i have many friends but how well can i really communicate with them?

check out kings of convenience's lyrics. the reality of interhuman relationships well interpreted.for example, below:

Misread

If you want to be my friend,
and you want us to get along
please do not expect me to wrap it up
and keep it there.
The observation I am doing
could easily be understood
as cynical demeanour,
but one of us misread
what do you know,
it happened again.
A friend is not a mean
you utilize to get somewhere,
somehow didn't notice,
friendship is an end
what do you know,
it happened again.
How come no one told me,
all throughout history,
the loneliest people were the ones
who always spoke their truth
the ones who made a difference
withstanding indifference.
I guess it's up to me now.
Should I take that risk, or just smile?
What do you know,
it happened again.